Drama, who needs it?

Ok so I have been here for almost three weeks now and finally the drama's are begining to un fold right before my very eyes...

In the last two days I have had conversations with two girls, who are both friends of mine, who have had a bit of a falling out. It's sad to see them go through this but because I wasn't here when the fall out began, I am impartial.

So on tuesday night, my friend who I will call Jane came over to my house and began to vent out her fustrations that she was going through with a girl who I will refer to as Jill. Basically Jane feels that Jill, who she saw as a good friend had abandened her when she needed her the most.

Then today, Jill texts me and says she needs to talk. Naturally, I had nothing else to do so I said ok. So she picked me up and we drove out to Seatoun beach. I sat there listening to Jill who had a different view on the fall out from Jill and I couldn't help but think...this is exhausting!!

The solution here would be to have Jane and Jill sit down and tell each other how they feel because it seems to me that all this unnecessary drama is the result of the lack of communication. I told this to Jill, who agreed. I advised her that Jane has a different view of this whole situation and that it would probably benefit them both if they just get together and talk.

I hate drama. It is so pointless and so high-school. I am trying to be a good friend though, and listening is all these gals want so of course I will be there for them. After hearing both sides of the story and seeing that there are some inconsistancies I came to a conclusion that not only do these two need to talk, they need to talk soon before more people get involved and it gets so bad they can't recover.

I really didn't want to get involved and I told them both that flat out. I am happy being oblivious to the NUMEROUS DRAMA's that happen here in Wellingotn (and believe me, there are MANY) and I really don't want to be sucked into this anymore. I offered my solution to them both and if they want to work things out they will. I only wish them the best...fingers crossed!!

Drama is so not needed, People need to start living their own lives rather than being concerned about others...that's just nosey ...

and I can't stand nosey people either!!