So I had this conversation with a friend of mine the other day because I was feeling a little, well for lack of a better word, "BLAH" about something. When she asked me exactly what it was I had no idea how to explain it to her.
Basically there's this guy, who has become a really good friend of mine and I am in no way interested in him romantically, which is the strange part. Anyway what's more strange is there is a girl, who is in no way stable and is one of those girls that uses her body to get attention from guys, even if she only wants them as just friends. Well she has suddenly become interested in my friend and suprisingly, because he is a guy, he has taken the bait.
This is where the "Uneasy Feeling" comes in. I couldn't help but feel "strange" about this. I mean, what is that? Is there even a word for it? Is it normal for friends to feel this way about their friends of the opposite sex? If someone has the answer please put us all out of our misery and share the secret because frankly, it's driving me insane.
I suppose it's because the chick involved is a bit of an attention seeking, self obsorbed, "it's all about me" kind of girl and my friend is obviously her next victim. It's obviously not my place to say anything to my friend but what am I meant to do? Sit back and watch her chew him up and spit him out? How do I warn him, without it looking like I want to be more than friends?
Someone has to be able to put some logic on this situation ... if anyone knows how to work the magic and still come out looking like the "concerned friend" - please let me know!
I'm totally confused!
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